We are a family of 8, soon to be 9. We have adopted 3 times from China (2007, 2008, and 2010). After our last adopt this past July, we thought our family was complete, but God had other plans for us. Not only is He calling us to step out on faith and adopt again, He is asking us to adopt out of birth order and adopt a 13 year old girl that will be aging out soon.
See, in China, once a child turns 14, (s)he is no longer eligible to be adopted. Imagine never knowing the love of a family. We never thought we would be the family for an older orphan, but God is persistent when He calls. We didn't want to listen at first. I mean, our van only seats 8, so we will have to get another type of vehicle. We only have a 5 bedroom house, so where would we put another child? What about all of the time and attention she will need? Will we neglect our other children? Plus our family already thinks we're crazy. We voiced these and many more concerns to God, but ultimately, He calmed our fears. And we found peace knowing that we are following God's plan for our family.
We are asking for prayers:
that we will get our income tax refund for our previous adoption credit from 2010 - It seems like the IRS is holding a lot of them for some reason. We need this refund in order to pay our next fee that is due when we send our dossier to China.
for a speedy process (We hope to send our dossier to China (DTC) within the next 2 weeks.)
that we are able to communicate with our new daughter once we are DTC so she will know we are coming for her
that our new daughter agrees to be adopted - In China, older kids are asked if they want to be adopted on Adoption Day, and they must sign their name. Some are not even told ahead of time about their new family.
that we can use frequent flyer miles to travel
that our new daughter had an easy acclimation into our family
that our children at home accept their new sister without any major problems
Please let me know you dropped by. Our blog usually does not get a lot of visitors, and I would love to read your comments.
PS - If you scroll down to February, you will see a picture of our new daughter.
3 comments:
You are/have an amazing family. I can understand your fears and worries and you are certainly in our prayers. Your family has a special gift and I know that although at times it is difficult the kids make it such a great ride:)
Tiffany
What a beautiful family! We are an adoptive family as well. We have 3 adopted children from China and 3 bio boys. We,too, have felt the call to adopt again. We are in the process of adopting a 2 yr old little boy from Nanjing China. I love to follow peoples journey's and especially love to read of large families...
Came upon your blog from Linny's blog...
We will be praying for your family.
Kim @ fivechilipeppers.blogspot.com
Came over from Linny's blog. Praying for your family. I think it's awesome that you are adopting an older child. I have a heart for the older children left behind. We do a lot of work with the older orphans in Eastern Europe. I have MANY friends that have adopted older children out of birth order.
Brooke
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